Cherish the Moment

Every day down to the tiniest second must be a valued time shared with your loved ones.  I am saying this because you will never know how long each moment will last.  There is no guarantee that the persons around you will stay forever.  The moment may not be happy at all times but the fact that they are with you, there is still a chance to spend the days better.  And each time spent will be part of a treasured memory that will be kept forever.

Being the eldest in the family, I have always been fond of my siblings.  After 28 years since I was born, I never thought that my siblings will be married and start a family.  Two of them are already planning to settle a life with their special loved ones.  Of course I am happy for them.  It was just ironic that they are getting into married life while I am getting out of it.  I am just saddened that they will no longer be with us at all times.  Surely they will be missed.  I told myself that this will not mean a loss but will be a bigger family circle. 

This is an eye opener for me, specially for my baby.  I will surely spend each moment with her and see to it that I am present in every  highlights of her life.  

 

The Package

This my ice breaker speech, delivered for our Toast Masters session last October 21.  Read on, and know more about me...

 

I woke up this morning, trying to get past sleepy mode.  I looked in the mirror and asked myself, how will I deliver this icebreaker speech about myself.  Will I enumerate my characteristics, my likes and dislikes, or let them know bits and pieces of my life?  And I have decided to do them all.

Good evening ladies and gentlemen, I am Ann Margaret Danga-Pardo, 28 years old and I am a mother packer!  A Mother because I am a mom of a cute and cuddly 2 year-old daughter, named Trisha Marianne.  And a packer, because I work in a packaging company, that is San Miguel Yamamura Packaging Corporation, for 4 years, seven months and six days to be exact.

Basically, I am a mother packed with super abilities to juggle my career and family life.  A seasoned young lady who has been through an adventurous journey, with ups and downs, bumps and crashes, but always gets back on her feet.  When I was young, I have always been eager to grow up fast not realizing the big responsibilities you have to face when you are a grown up.  But I am always up for the challenge.  As the eldest child among five siblings, I have been taught by my parents to be responsible enough for the whole family.  I have to watch for my brothers and sister and be patient enough in dealing with them.  I was molded to be compassionate, understanding and hardworking.  At times, I may have my mood swings.  I guess that is another reason for being a woman and being an artist as well.  Being an artist just made me express myself through works of art and pushed my creative limits.  I get to know myself better.

As I entered the corporate world, I knew this is another phase of learning.  The real battlefield where only the fittest will survive.  I started from a small company and jumped from one work to another, trying to find a place to fit in.  I worked as a graphic artist, sales, media relations and accounts executive, dealing with different folks of different strokes.  I almost thought of giving up, for graduating with honors from college, expectations from me are very high.  But then I said to myself, I never dreamed of anything I can not achieve.  I worked my way out. Finally, I landed here in San Miguel as an Account Executive under Design Centre here in Packaging, a job that suits me best.

Family for me is my top priority.  Although job may be demanding but when it concerns my family, I have to stop everything I have been doing.  I work to live and not live to work.  Especially now that I have a loving daughter to attend to, I do not want to miss the highlights of her life.  I always wanted to be there for her, for you can only see her as a child once and there is no rewind when you missed a scene.  From work, I may be tough, but at home, I am soft hearted.  I am really sensitive when it comes to family issues, maybe because of my current situation. 

 

But this does not stop me from dreaming, I may have loved and lost but I do not regret the things that happened in my life, for I believe that things have their own purpose.  You may not know it now, it may be hard to understand, but things will work what is best for you.  I have deep faith with God which I trying to pass on to my daughter.

A good package comes in different shapes and sizes.  It was molded and created through good craftsmanship.  A package to survive the test of time.

I am Ann Margaret Danga-Pardo and I am a Mother Packer! 

 

 

 

My Toast Masters 101

Hahaha!  Glad to blog again, if not with the brainstorming I needed for my 1st toastmaster's speech, I guess I will not be here.

Yes, I am now a member of the Toast Masters in our office with members from the Makati club.  I have attended 2 meetings and for our upcoming meeting this Wednesday, I will deliver my first speech.  They call it the Icebreaker, where new members will talk about themselves.  Just to give you a little briefing, this session is held every Wednesdays of the week at 7pm in our office, where members are gathered here to practice speaking in front of an audience.  I believe that this is a good practice especially for people who does a lot of communication in their jobs like Sales/Account Executives, DJs, Hosts, journalists, etc.  What I admired about this club is they correct your grammar, they make you think creatively on how to deliver speeches through their Table Topics and you interact with other people.

I am trying to squeeze out my creative juices for my working title as well as my intro and my ending.  Whooaah!  I hope I get this right.  I just needed a good start and I know, I can do it!  I'll try to post my speech.  Wish me luck!

A thought of Love

Few days ago, I overheard the TV series of Juday & hubby Ryan, "George & Cecil". It reminded me with two of my friends who ended up together in marriage and are now working in Dubai. I just thought that after the heartache's from their past relationships, the on & off kind of relationship and other sour things that happened between them, they finally made it through. They finally found their match. Someone filled the missing part of their lives that they complemented each other.

On the side, I thought to myself, how long do I have to wait for my long lost love. I've been through a lot of heartaches, learned my lessons well, I even had my baby, when will my night and shinning armour rescue me from my loneliness? When will love find me again? I no longer want to wait for love, I will just allow love to find me.

One of our conversations with my good and very supportive friends, how was the criteria I now have after all the things that happened? Does it become higher or lower? For me, my criteria went higher, for I finally realized that during my past relationships, it was always me who tried to make the relationship work, until I got tired to enslaving myself for their love. I pittied myself for doing this. Now, I know that whoever comes, should love finds me again, it will be greater than the past relationships I had because I know my worth and I am worth loving for.

Baby turns 2!

Last Sunday, we just celebrated my baby's 2nd birthday.  Wow!  Time moves sooo fast, I feel old now.  Soon she'll go to school at 4 or 5 years of age, which will eat up my salary.  Hehehe.  Anyway, going back to her birthday, we went to Aling Tonya's in Macapagal Highway and had lunch with the family.  Marco's GF Frances is our special guest for her to meet the whole family as well - aside from our immediate family, we have our lola, 2 titas & 3 cousins.  Of course the menu, mouthwatering seafood galore!  We had crabs in 2 different dishes, one steamed, while the other with oyster sauce.  Papa asked a co-employee to buy the crabs in Bicol.  Then clam soup, calamares & baked tahong for appetizers.  We also had Shrimps in 2 dishes also, tempura and steamed.  Pork Liempo which my Tita contributed.  For dessert, the birthday cake, we had 2 cakes from Estrelles.  The Caramel Cake for my baby, while the Marshmallow cake for Lola & Zorro.  Super yummy cakes, as its not too sweet with the soft sponge  cake that's just right after having  the main course.  You'll really ask for more, if you're not in a diet.  Since we had 3 celebrants for August.  Everyone's full after that big lunch, wherein we started eating at 12:30pm and finished by 2:30pm.  

After lunch, we strolled in MOA for 3 hours and went to Mass in Malate Church for the 6pm mass.  Really enjoyed the time with my family, so glad to have them around, specially my loving daughter.

Well again, Happy Birthday my dear Trisha!  Love you always, Mommy...

The Man from Never Land

A man once came, whom I thought will be the fulfillment of a dream.  

He is attractively mysterious, playful & magical.  

He comes and he goes his own ways to live by.

He doesn't worry for the future and doesn't dwell on the past.

He just lives for the day and tomorrow is nothing but a blast.

He talks of his adventures, like a bold shining knight.

And takes me away dreamily, under a cold moonlight.

It is like a fantasy that came to a reality.

A man who fights for me against the pirates of the sea.

We share our days in Never Land, with his games and foolish ways.

But doing the same routine everyday made me look forward for tomorrow.

So I have to stop and look at the clock, to see that time has left me behind.

I suddenly came back to my senses, I have to go back where I once lived.

I bid him goodbye keeping his promise, he will often visit and just be around.

Every night I waited, hoping he will be back.

Hours to days, weeks to months, years to decades.

Not even a shadow came by the window panes. 

He must be with the mermaids singing or with tiny fairies playing.

Or he might have been asleep with his dreams in Never Land.

I realized I can not be with my Peter Pan for I am real and he is only a fantasy.

We are worlds apart of dreams and reality.

Painful Goodbyes

Have you ever lost anything or someone so valuable to you?   It can be an object or a special person who can be a family member, a friend or a lover?

While driving for work this morning, i heard a topic in RX 93.1's Morning Rush with Chico & Del, about why is it sad to let go or when does it hurt to miss someone.  They said, 'when you know he or she is not going back'.

True enough, YES, when somebody leaves for abroad, perhaps a friend or a special someone, who leaves due to unavoidable circumstances, its sad because you know you're going to miss them.  But then, you know they are just around and will be back for sometime.  You even get excited to receive messages through calls, cellphone, email, etc., specially now that we're living in a hi-tech world where communication is very easy.

On the other hand, when somebody leaves because its their time, death for instance, it pains because you know they're not coming back.  It may be scary to have them around but seriously, you're in 2 different worlds, the living and the dead.  There is no other way of communication but only through prayers and reminiscing the good old memories you've had.

The most painful of all is seeing the person you longed to be with but you know for a fact that he can no longer be yours.  It goes with the saying 'So near yet so far'.  It's the same feeling you  have when somebody dies.  What hurts more is you can still see him around and knowing that the pain he left behind is still there.   It may take sometime to fully recover but life has to move on.  The song below is a personal favorite, read on & reminisce the love you once had but can never be...

GOODBYE

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I can see the pain living in your eyes 

And I know how hard you try 

You deserve to have so much more 

I can feel your heart and I sympathize 

And I'll never criticize 

All you've ever meant to my life 

I don't want to let you down 

I don't want to lead you on 

i don't want to hold you back 

From where you might belong 

You would never ask me why 

My heart is so disguised 

I just can't live a lie anymore 

I would rather hurt myself 

Than to ever make you cry 

There's nothing left to say but goodbye 

You deserve the chance at the kind of love 

I'm not sure i'm worthy of 

Losing you is painful to me 

I don't want to let you down 

I don't want to lead you on 

i don't want to hold you back 

From where you might belong 

You would never ask me why 

My heart is so disguised 

I just can't live a lie anymore 

I would rather hurt myself 

Than to ever make you cry 

There's nothing left to say but goodbye 

You would never ask me why 

My heart is so disguised 

I just can't live a lie anymore 

I would rather hurt myself 

Than to ever make you cry 

There's nothing left to try 

Though it's gonna hurt us both 

There's no other way than to say goodbye